I read a comment today from someone who had been excluded from an event and felt a few things...sorry for her, embarrassed for her that she mentioned it, and understanding her pain.
It's not a nice feeling to be excluded from something you believe you should have been invited to attend but there are often many reasons you weren't invited...it might have been assumed you knew you were welcome or it might have been just close friends that were expected. It might also be because you're aloof or not pleasant company.
It stands to reason that, if you want to have people befriend you, you need to express yourself in a friendly manner and it often takes an effort on your part to do this. There will always be cliques and you won't always be included but that's just life. We usually reap what we sow and that means friendship, too.
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