We've had a few marriages break up in our family so it shouldn't come as too big a shock when another one bites the dust. It happens and life goes on. But it's never an easy adjustment because there is no such thing as a complete break-up where everyone happily goes their own way. There is usually collateral damage.
The collateral damage in this case happens to be two little boys that are dearly loved by all family members on both sides. I want them to be able to adjust and not suffer too much from the changes in their little lives that they have no control over. I can only hope that all family members involved will do their best to see that happens...I believe they will.
If every single marriage break-up made the welfare of the children their prime concern, then divorces wouldn't be so unsettling. Living in an unhappy home isn't good for the children in the first place so having a good relationship with both parents who happen to live separately isn't such a bad thing.
Only time will tell, but my little guys have both a loving mother and a loving father whose priority is the children. It should work out fine.
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