Comedian, Steve Harvey, is a funny man but he's also a well spoken man to explain how men think. I stumbled upon today's show and heard him speak about how women give up their "cookies" way too fast and the reason they shouldn't (from a man's perspective). Interesting!
He claims that women are missing an opportunity to take time to get to know the man they will honor with their "cookies". So many women complain about how many of the men in their lives have turned out to be dogs but they carry some of the blame for not getting to know those men before giving them their "cookies".
My generation knew this intuitively. With women these days becoming stronger and grabbing the freedom they deserve, some have taken it the wrong way and undervalued themselves and what they really are. A woman is not a toy, something to be used casually and then walked away from. A woman who truly values herself should not hand herself over to someone who doesn't deserve her. And it takes a bit of time to find out if he is worthy of her.
Steve Harvey recommends the 90 day wait but that seems a little long. You could be with a man for 90 years and still not know him well so my way of thinking is to be with him long enough to witness how much he respects you, how much kindness he shows to others, and how honest he is. That might be all you ever learn about the man you choose but he could still surprise you.
One little old lady on Steve's show said she is currently on the 20 year wait but that's okay, too. Better than offering your "cookies" to a sleaze bag!
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